英语翻译Dear Ben,I am a melancholy girl who is lost at sea in th

英语翻译
Dear Ben,
I am a melancholy girl who is lost at sea in the ocean of love.I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year,during which time we've already broken up once.But since we started seeing each other again I've been puzzled:He's started to say things like,“I find I don't miss you any more” and “Why don't you lose weight?” He thinks I have many shortcomings.My instincts tell me he doesn't love me as he did before.Why does he remain in a relationship without love rather than say goodbye to me?What should I do
Alice
I have no idea why you would ever let your boyfriend put you down like that.When he asks “why don't you lose weight?” you should ask him why he doesn't love you for who you are.I think this is a bad situation and you need to get out of it while you still can.You need to be strong and not let his putting you down give you low self-esteem.That all just a big mental trap so you don't feel good enough and eventually become afraid to leave because you won't find anyone else.You ask why he chooses to remain in the relationship; I am wondering the same thing about you.It's not entirely up to him so why do you choose to remain?You also have the ability to walk out of this relationship.I think you should be the strong one and get out now and find someone who likes you just the way you are.
Don't get between the boy and his girl

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亲爱的本：
我一个迷失于爱情海洋的忧郁女孩,我和我的男朋友在一起将近一年了.在这一年里,我们也曾经分过一次手但当我们再次开始对视的时候,我就疑惑了.他开始对我说“我发现我不再想你了”和“你为什么不减肥呢?”之类的问题.他认为我有很多缺点.我的直觉告诉我他不再像以前一样爱我了.为什么还要维持那个支离破碎的爱情呢,为什么不干脆跟我说再见?我应该怎么办?
爱丽丝
我不知道你为什么会被男朋友的那些行为弄得如此郁闷.当他问你“为什么不减肥的?”你应该问问他为什么他不就你这个人爱你.我认为现在是一个很糟的情况,你应该赶快逃脱乘现在还来得及.你应该坚强起来,不能就这样让他折磨你,放低你的自尊.你感觉不是太好最终变得害怕离开因为你怕找不到其他人,这是一个巨大的心里陷阱.你要问他为什么还要保持你们之间的关系,我也跟你开始对这个问题感到奇怪了.这不是完全取决于他的,那你又是为什么还要维持这种关系呢?你也有权力去了断这个关系.我认为你应该变坚强起来,然后走出现在心里陷阱.去寻找那些喜欢你这种类型女人的男人.不要在他和他的女友之间充当第三者.